The Power of Encouraging Words: Building Confidence in Young Minds

“That was incredible, baby!”I can imagine how startling those words may be to our children. They may have done that exact same task a hundred times over—it’s become normal.But the electric supply generated from that statement alone is enough to get them to try it again, even if it’s just to test our response.

The more they hear it, the more it becomes part of their story. A new course is charted—one where it’s easy for them to believe they are incredible, not because they did something special, but simply because they are.

The Power of Encouraging Words

Children are little scientists, constantly experimenting with how the world reacts to them. They test, they observe, they repeat. And what do they discover? That our words shape what they believe about themselves.

A simple phrase like “That was incredible, baby!” is more than just words—it’s a mirror. It reflects back to them their worth, their abilities, and the fact that they matter. And when those words are said often enough, they don’t just believe in their actions—they believe in themselves.

Because here’s the truth: our children don’t need to do anything special to be incredible. They already are.

Reinforcing Confidence Through Books and Stories

The stories we tell our children—both in books and in real life—play a huge role in shaping their confidence. Stories where kids see themselves as brave, smart, and kind help them believe those things to be true about themselves.

That’s why at LnM Dreambox, our mission is to create books that not only entertain but also affirm and empower young minds. Books like The Pikinini Scientist remind children that they are capable, creative, and full of potential—just as they are.

5 Simple Ways to Boost Your Child’s Confidence Every Day

1️⃣ Use Encouraging Words Often – Instead of only praising big achievements, celebrate the small moments too. “I love how you tried that!” or “Wow, you really focused on that task!” goes a long way.

2️⃣ Let Them Know They Are Enough – Remind them that their worth isn’t tied to performance. “I love you just because you are you” is a message every child needs to hear.

3️⃣ Celebrate Effort, Not Just Results – When they try something new, focus on their effort rather than whether they succeed. “You worked so hard on that!” encourages resilience.

4️⃣ Read Books That Reflect Their Brilliance – Choose stories that show kids being adventurous, smart, and kind. Books are powerful tools for self-belief.

5️⃣ Model Self-Confidence – Children learn from watching us. Speak kindly about yourself, embrace mistakes, and show them what confidence looks like.

Final Thoughts

“That was incredible, baby!” may seem like just a simple phrase, but to them? It’s confirmation. A nudge. A signal that says, try again, you are seen, you matter.

So here’s to saying it more often. Here’s to letting our little champs know they are magic, just as they are.

What words have you said lately that lit up a little face? Share in the comments!